After 4 trips, over 30 dresses and countless hours later...
She GOT her DRESS
I am sorry to say it was none of these and even more sorry to say that I cannot show what the dress is. She is keeping it a secret, crazy I know : P
It was very disconcerting, trying to figure out which would be best when everything looked great on her. But then again she is kind of beautiful, but then again I am NOT partial because she is my sister, doesn't change the fact.
Other facts I learned: there is a point when it is "too many dresses", That phrases like "more taffeta" and "bejeweled" are pretty common in this area's bridal world, and that I am so glad not to be getting married again.
On to less word-ish things: